Secret to living a Positive and happier Life
A positive attitude can do wonders to your self-esteem, career and even your love life. It’s undisputed that in life there is unending chain of predicaments that drive our feelings and thought’s to disappointments and frustrations.
Sometimes, life takes a different course; there are situations that presses you harder, life becomes hard on you that you might take it personal. In such situations you can go friendless just because your status is not up to your acquaintances expectations.
Sometimes it’s good to keep it a secret, if you go on telling everybody about your weakness, you will be giving them a leeway to ignore you. No one wants to be associated with a wailing person.
One’s self respect-Secret to living a Positive and happier Life
Your attitude can make people like you or despise you; humans have a natural instinct to want to be accepted. Its natural, you don’t have to struggle or fight in order to win other people’s support or favor. The way you behave and the motivation that you have towards life matters a lot, one’s self-respect is a necessity towards honor.
Sometimes you may feel low. I once overheard someone admire another person’s physical appearances. We can’t all be the same, of course there are the beauty queens or the handsome princes of this world.
Never compare yourself with others or try to manipulate your appearances to fit in a certain group, actually God created everybody with a purpose in life, no one was meant to be a nuisance to others. This doesn’t mean that you disregard working on yourself, get yourself a good facial treatment, or a soothing body massage, it helps boost your confidence.
Has it ever crossed your mind why you spend a lot of time looking in the mirror? It’s because you miss your face so much. Your face is so precious to you, at times you go searching for a place where you can have time to be close to it, and that’s why you keep on looking for a mirror, others will pretend to be passing by the window panes just to have a glance at their faces. This is beyond undeniable fact that everyone is an angel of oneself.
Positive attitude
Developing a positive attitude requires long-term goals and consistency. You need to appreciate yourself more. We all get angry; we all have situations that cause us to think negative. This shouldn’t cause you to lose more minutes of your lifetime because you “think” that the person who upset you should know how angry you are.
Does it make you feel better? Of course not. Then why should you be angry or show others that you are angry with them if it doesn’t add a fraction to your life?
Being positive does not involve comparisons. Failure begins when we try to live like others. It’s natural for humans to compare their living standards with others. You’re not doing everything wrong, it’s just that everyone has their own luck in life.
That’s why it’s preferable that you judge things positively with a mind of hope that one day you will make it. While at it, be focused also, nothing comes easily. You will have to work for it, all those hours of designing, blogging, marketing among others will one day bear fruits. If you continue being consistent, make sure you learn a new trick every day.
By the way, apart from the weatherman who really knows when the rain will fall? It’s unpredictable but one can judge from the skies, that there’ll be a storm soon, this applies to real life situations, as you work hard towards your goals, one day there’ll be success in your future life.
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